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A Son (Del Augusta's Blog): 10 GUYS EVERY CHRISTIAN WOMAN MUST AVOID

Sat, 20 Apr 2013 10:31:13 -0700

A Son (Del Augusta's Blog): 10 GUYS EVERY CHRISTIAN WOMAN MUST AVOID:

So I was hanging out with some christian guys in Davis, CA and I thought I would never want my daughters to date these guys. hahahahah. So I thought, if I could tell my daughters the 10 guys I want her never to date, here’s what it would be. I’ll probably lose guy points for this but please share…

"Brother, if any man thinks ill of you, do not be angry with him; for you are worse than he thinks..."

Tue, 27 Nov 2012 10:02:23 -0800

“Brother, if any man thinks ill of you, do not be angry with him; for you are worse than he thinks you to be.”

- Charles Spurgeon (via imawarriorpoet)

Feeling Used

Tue, 20 Nov 2012 15:09:02 -0800

nonelikejesus:

I’ve learned in my 23 years of life that you will have people in your life that will take, take, and take some more. Those same people are nowhere to be found when it’s time to give a little. When it’s you that’s in need of a shoulder to cry on, and ear to just listen, a friend, they’re not there.

I’ve learned that that’s just life.

More of your relationships than I’d like to admit will be one sided. The saddest part is that a lot of times it’s those that you felt you could really count on that end up being duds. Sometimes your going to give, give, and give and never get anything back but that’s ok. Life really does go on, whether or not you’re ready for it. It’s our duty to love others but not everyone can return the favor and we have to learn to be okay with that.

I find encouragement in the fact that Jesus knows exactly how I’m feeling. Everyone, myself included, takes from Him and yet have such a difficult time giving anything back to Him. We enjoy financial blessings but can’t seem to pay our tithes. We love being in His presence yet can’t seem to commit to a relationship with Him. We enjoy every blessing that comes with being a child of God, yet find it more than difficult to devote our lives to serving Him. Oh, but He gives more than we could ever give back, so why try right?

When I’m feeling used, I’m glad I can pour my heart out to Jesus, knowing full well He understands perfectly. He knows what it’s like to give love to people and not get it back. That’s why He is my very best friend. He completely understands me, and what a wonderful thing it is.

So when you’ve given and not gotten back from people, try giving it to Jesus, He will take care of everything. He’s the best listener, He’s the only one that can give lasting peace after a good cry and He’s the greatest and most loyal friend you’ll ever find.

“It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.” Psalm 118:8

Unashamed Tour in SF, CA.Hands down,one of if not thebestconcert...

Tue, 13 Nov 2012 09:54:59 -0800

Unashamed Tour in SF, CA.Hands down,one of if not thebestconcert I’ve ever been to. I can’t help but praise God for the opportunity to worship with these guys and my bestfriend. Their ministry is really reaching people and by the turn out of this event. San Francisco is home to me, where I grew up majority of my life and to see this event come alive was just an awesome feeling. I’m glad I was able to see Trip Lee during his last tour since he will be retiring after this. There really are no words but I’m just so happy I went and look forward to more tours of theirs. It’s a movement, so if you don’t know, now ya know.

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Sun, 14 Oct 2012 00:05:13 -0700

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Wed, 26 Sep 2012 19:41:07 -0700

Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

Thu, 13 Sep 2012 21:48:41 -0700

writtenonhispalms:

Galatians 1:10

"Whenever your heart starts to be anxious about the future, preach to your heart and say, ‘Heart, who..."

Tue, 11 Sep 2012 12:10:30 -0700

“Whenever your heart starts to be anxious about the future, preach to your heart and say, ‘Heart, who do you think you are to be afraid of the future and nullify the promise of God? No, heart, I will not exalt myself with anxiety. I will humble myself in peace and joy as I trust this precious and great promise of God—He cares for me.’”

- John Piper (via sheisaloverofchrist)

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Sat, 25 Aug 2012 12:33:17 -0700

For those who are stready trying to hook me up.

Mon, 13 Aug 2012 20:40:00 -0700

People are always surprised that I’ve stuck it out with my sabbatical from dating for a year and some. They always ask why or how or when will you date again? As if I’m suppose to be in a relationship. I find it even more funny that a year ago when I was dating someone, everyone was shocked and asked why? what bout?And the list goes on…

My girls think I’m single cus I’m scared that every guy is like the last one I dated. My boys think I’m single cus my standards are too high and apparently will never be met. My parents think I’m single because they feel no one is good enough for me. And for a minute, I questioned why I was single. I thought I was damaged goods, crazy or whatever you name it, I probably thought it.

But then I woke up and realized I’m single because God called me to this season in my life and I ought to embrace it while I can.I’m starting to think that this has been the BEST season yet, if it is even a season. I’ve been learning more about Him, growing in my relationship with Him, serving Him and just falling more in love with Him, everyday.

Because I don’ need to rebound after the last one.

Because I can handle it being alone.

Because I refuse and will never be unequally yoked.

Because I don’t settle and it has absolutely nothing to do with looks or money.

Because I don’t need to fill voids that truly only God can fill.

Because I don’t need to be put on a pedestal by someone else to validate everything I should’ve already known.

Because quite honestly, I wouldn’t know how to balance a relationship right now.

I hate to admit that the guys I’ve dated, I kid you not, ALL OF THEM, used to always tell me I’m too busy. Though it may be true but the other truth they don’t know is that I make time if I know you’re worth it. School full time, work full time, & the little time I do get, I spend it wisely with my fam, girls or just enjoying myself. It’s crazy, I think I like being alone a little too much. Don’t get me wrong, I get lonely too but I can’t even imagine myself being in a relationship right now. The right person at the wrong time is the wrong thing,trust me, I know this.I refuse to settle for short term butterflies and end up with long term trust issues.

So for all those who are concerned and continuously ask,this is for you.Don’t get me wrong, I love love and when I love, I love hard. So I love seeing happy couples who continuously keep God the center of their relationship (ya’ll are the ones who give me hope) But for right now, I’m good.

I feel like I always blog about singleness and contentment. Hahaha. This has to be my last one for awhile, I swear. But like I said, for the ones who are worried I’ll never get married, am too picky, am too busy, THIS IS FOR YOU <3 I love you all, I really do.

"Do you think anyone in heaven looks back at what they sacrificed and says, ‘Aww why did I give that..."

Sat, 11 Aug 2012 18:39:39 -0700

“Do you think anyone in heaven looks back at what they sacrificed and says, ‘Aww why did I give that up?’ No. They don’t.”

- Francis Chan (via ivebeenfoundworthy)

jasminecrystal: Biblical Success keerstindawn: What is success to you? Is it going to college?...

Fri, 10 Aug 2012 22:35:30 -0700

jasminecrystal:

Biblical Success

keerstindawn:

What is success to you?

Is it going to college? Making lots of money? Achieving certain goals?

I know that for many people, including myself until recently, success is measured based on accomplishments. And we all want to be successful, don’t we? Not to mention the fact that the “American Dream” is so integrated into every thing we see and do. I’m not saying that success is a bad thing, but there is a huge difference between worldly success and Biblical success. A Biblical definition of success has almost nothing to do with acquiring materialistic things, or attaining personal comfort. Success for Christians means to walk with Christ and advance the Kingdom. Simple as that.

When we’re walking in relationship with Christ, and we have truly been transformed by His grace, the “American Dream” is only a cheap counterfeit of the rich treasure of knowing Him.

My girls, girls, girls, I do adore.

Thu, 09 Aug 2012 18:27:43 -0700

“You’re too busy. You work too much. You spend too much time with your family. You’re always out of town. You’re always doing this & doing that…” -From all the guys I’ve dated,why thank you.

In the midst of being busy, I cherish the times I do get to sit down, chill and just have a good ol time with my girls. I don’t get to see my girls too often but when I do it is nothing but laughs, cries, giggles and flat out my getaway from the hecticness. It’s nice being able to sit down and talk about everything from friendships, college, careers, plans & it’s such a blessing to see how God is working in all my girls lives. Everytime I go MIA or am so caught up in the busyness of life, the question always gets asked “so.. are you dating anyone new? hows your love life?”

WELL, riddle me that…

After a year long and MUCH needed sabbatical from dating (I’m thinking of taking it to 2013 or til I finish readingI kissed dating goodbye).I can’t say much. I love hearing and seeing my girls happy. I’m one to be giddy and super happy for my girls especially in the fact one of my bestest friends is married, and I thank God that she blesses me with wisdom from a married woman’s perspective. When the subject is brought up if I’m dating or catching feelings for anyone, it’s pretty much been the same ol, same ol. Same people creepin’ up in the picture & new dudes too and yet nothing has caught my interest to keep me, none have come close to what I believe God wants for me. I’ve yet to meet God’s best for me and I’mgoodwith that.

As much as I do miss being crazy about someone, the butterflies & cupcaking, I start to think about the past 3 years and how much of hell I’ve been through and back. The not so nice stories, the boohoo stories and the whole nine, is what I don’t miss. So, when I have nothing to speak on regarding my love life and the fact that I’m not dating anyone new, I’ll take pride in that. I’ll take pride in not having anything to say rather than having some dysfunctional, insecure relationship to speak on. I’d rather have nothing to say then have my girls look at me dumb and wanna slap me for trynna settle with a nigga that clearly is hitting below my standards. Wheeeeeeeew.

Anyway. My girls, I do adore. Aside from God & my fam, I love being able to fall back on them. I’ve learned to be alone without being lonely. But when the times right, when God says go and gives me His best…. <3 the world will know.

Til then, I’m good with where I’m at. No need to disturb my bLiss.

Letter From A Jealous Brother by KB

Mon, 18 Jun 2012 21:23:28 -0700

Letter From A Jealous Brother by KB:

For the ladies but also for the men. A must-read. A letter that should remind us of our worth. Ladies, I believe this could help you maintain an undivided heart for Christ whether you consider being married someday or not. A letter that is personally written for us to know how to be a godly bride. A letter for the men to know how worth it to pursue a godly woman is.

breanna-lynn: “I don’t want you to stop living in sin because you’re afraid of going to hell. I...

Thu, 07 Jun 2012 18:38:08 -0700

breanna-lynn:

“I don’t want you to stop living in sin because you’re afraid of going to hell. I want you to stop living in sin for one reason: Jesus is better.”

—
Damon Thompson

You know what's freeing?

Sun, 03 Jun 2012 20:54:14 -0700

breanna-lynn:

The moment you realize it doesn’t matter to you anymore what people say or think about you.

Just because they say or think it doesn’t make it true.

Christ defines you and your identity.

If you know who you truly are, you don’t need to be insecure or defensive about who others say you are.

Christ secures and frees us so we don’t have to be bound by anything or anyone outside of Him.

Praise God.

Anything you cannot be happy without is an idol.

Thu, 31 May 2012 18:24:00 -0700

Got me checkin’ myself before I wreck myself.

Ten scriptural principles to live by (2 Peter 1:3-8)

Tue, 29 May 2012 11:51:15 -0700

1) Guard your tongue. Always say less than you think and others will respect you.

2) Make promises sparingly, keep them faithfully, and people will trust you.

3) Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind word, and some day you will look back with joy and not regret.

4) Be genuinely interested in others; show it by listening attentively and expressing your appreciation.

5) Be cheerful. Don’t dwell on your aches and pains; everybody has trouble. There are people in the nearest hospital who would gladly swap places with you.

6) Keep an open mind and try to get all the facts. Discuss, but don’t argue. Learn to disagree without being disagreeable. Give other people the benefit of the doubt.

7) Discourage gossip, it’s destructive.

8) Be sensitive to the feelings of others. If you do, people will consider you to be wise.

9) Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Live so that nobody will believe them.

10) Don’t worry about getting the credit, just keep giving your best and be patient. God records and God rewards!

"Most of us use ‘I’m waiting for God to reveal His calling on my life’ as a means of avoiding action...."

Tue, 22 May 2012 11:16:24 -0700

““Most of us use ‘I’m waiting for God to reveal His calling on my life’ as a means of avoiding action. Did you hear God calling you to sit in front of the television yesterday? Or to go on your last vacation? Or exercise this morning? Probably not, but you still did it. The point isn’t that vacations or exercise are wrong, but that we are quick to rationalize our entertainment and priorities yet are slow to commit to serving God.””

- Francis Chan, Crazy Love (via set-apartgirl)

breanna-lynn: These are just a few things I wish young men would know before they consider pursuing...

Sat, 12 May 2012 08:12:36 -0700

breanna-lynn:

These are just a few things I wish young men would know before they consider pursuing a young woman.

Pursue a woman you would seriously marry, not that you are simply attracted to.

Be friendly and become familiar (some people call this “being friends first” but you have to be careful because that is broadly defined and can create a mess). All relationships begin with friendly, then familiar, then intimacy. Intimacy isn’t something you should move into with a young woman until you are in an actual relationship with her, and even then you’ll only have a certain level of that until you’re married.

Wait for the right timing. Women take time to be wooed and build trust. If you love her, you will wait for her to come around.

Be intentional. In the right timing, let her know your intentions. Be completely clear to her. It will save a lot of confusion.

Pay attention and listen to her. Women offer information that will help you know how to pursue her, what is important and meaningful to them, if you simply listen or are observant.

Show her you care.

Do not pursue other girls at the same time. Be careful about the attention you give to other young women because I guarantee she will pay attention to that. She’ll notice if you treat her specially.

Be who you really are. Don’t be fake or hide the ugly. Honesty is becoming. Be real, be yourself. If you can’t be yourself or be real with her, then it’s not going to work out.

Have accountability with another man who is mature in his faith.

Pursuing her does not end when you are married. When you decide to pursue a woman, you commit to a lifetime of searching out her heart.